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Never Trust Someone Who Drinks Everyone’s Tea

A man drinks tea while surrounding faces whisper, representing the accumulation of borrowed stories and secondhand judgments.

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How habitual exposure to other people’s private stories can shape perception, trust, and the proposed concept of vicarialization.

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There are people who seem to know everything.

Who is getting divorced.

Who is cheating.

Who got fired.

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